Friday, December 7, 2012

Intimidation

Do you ever feel intimidated?.. at home or at work or just out in a social environment?

Why is that?

Sometimes we may feel as if the other person has more POWER or more influence.
It also may have something to do with our past.
How or where we brought up, maybe how our family life was?
Sometimes without knowing it we transcend back to that time and automatically fall into the role of being powerless.

We all have the power.
 Rather you CHOOSE to give the other person the POWER is totally up to YOU.

First you need to identify it and realize that you in that situation.

Do not allow others to intimidate you. That does mean that you go looking for a fight or that you try to yell louder or be the tough guy. It just means that sometimes you need to look from the outside- in-and ask - why? Why do you feel the way you do? and why did you react the way you did?

It may not only be the other person's fault...it may be simply how you perceive him or her?
 Your insecurities.
Either way...you have a CHOICE.

 Stay in control. Keep the Power.

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