Sunday, March 30, 2014

Amazing

It is amazing to me how people act differently to others.

Some people barely say hi or smile when you pass them in the work place- yet those same people when a executive or " higher up " passes them they are all smiles and happy greetings.

I just do not get it.

Are people that insecure ? Do they feel that power and money will be bestowed upon them by those that have it if they kiss their behind enough?

I watched it in front of me when Paul Arpin was alive , people would act completely different in front of him. And most of the time he knew it.

One man , who was the absolute rudest individual I ever knew, he would turn into this completely different person when he was in Paul's presence. His whole demeanor was transformed, even his infliction and tone in his voice was not what I was used to, he was smiling and positive none of which he was outside of Paul's office.

Needless to say that man moved on... it all caught up to him.

Amazing.

The thing is that men like Paul Arpin see right through it and others see it also.

Be the same person in front of everybody. You will feel better about yourself and people will respect you a heck of a lot more.

Power and money should not change how you speak to someone or act.

Want to feel better about yourself.....just smile more and help where you can.....with all that you pass or have contact with. It will start to encompass you in a positive way.

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