Thursday, October 3, 2013

Being Heard

I think one of the more frustrating things in life is the feeling of  " not being heard".

Rather it is at work, in our social views or at home one of the more challenging issues is trying to have a active opinion. We all have our point of view and when we feel as if it is not being heard or that no one cares we tend to get angry. In some cases we try to find a way to break through.
We may talk louder or yell or get hyper and try to present or case.
We may find comfort in numbers and try to align ourselves with others in order to try to be heard.

The main objective is to try to remain true to ourselves and our values with turning ugly or negative.
Easier said then doe sometimes.
But we lose our validity of our argument if we just yell louder.

That is why you always need to STOP, LOOK and LISTEN.

Trying to be heard means you also need to hear others.


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