I have dealt with all kind of personalities through the years and have been lied to, stabbed in the back and have had hundreds of broken promises. That said I certainly have had my share of successes and feel good stories and guys and gals that went well above the call of duty and in their kindness.
The question is for all those that lied and cheated- who were you really fooling?
Who did you hurt?
At the end of the day we all have to answer to ourselves and take a good look in the mirror.
And trust me all those people that you think you are fooling- they know.. they just go along.
Paul Arpin had the best " bull shit meter " of any man I ever knew. I would sit in his office with people that would try to bull shit there way through with him and he read them in 2 minutes but let them keep going knowing what he needed to know already.
No one is perfect, we all fall down and sometimes may say or do the wrong thing- it is ok-
that is part of life and part of the learning but LEARN from it and do your best to eliminate those times and focus on being the best person that you can be.
Remember , in the end you really fool no one-