Friday, April 25, 2014

Jealousy

Do not be jealous of your friends or fellow co- workers.

Just worry about how to improve yourself, do do better and be a better worker and person.

Do not wish to have what they have or what they are, you have no idea what their personnel live may be like. I know too many people that fill their day worrying about what the other guy is doing or how much he makes or how much he has.

What a waste of time and energy.

The way I look at it we only have so much time in a day, so much oxygen and brain cells.
Why waste them ?

Jealousy...yes jealousy is waste of time and energy. If in your conversations the bulk of your words revolve around what other people have or what other people say or do then it must be that you are jealous .

As I said in a past blog piece you don't know what you don't know. You have no idea if what you even understand about that guy or situation is even true. And furthermore in order to actually dig at the truth you would need to see and hear all sides. And even then you would need to put on your judge robe and decide who is telling the truth.
What a waste of time , energy and brain cells.

Live YOUR life, what can you do to improve what you do and help others.
Take all that time and devout it to helping rather the hurting and you will start smiling and enjoying your days rather then hating and being angry .

1 comment:

Road Warrior said...

Got to post something about this...A 30 year buddy(who died at the driver entrance of the T/A in Las Cruses,6 years ago)said some things that affected my life.....#1.It's all about cubes and weight...MORE IS BETTER!
#2.I don't care how much you make...If it's good...GREAT...What matters to me is what I put in the bank at the end of the year...This job has no room for comparisons....Every job is different..Leave the petty things to the large carriers...SUPPORT each other...I think we need an Arpin BLAST....Get a bunch of us together and fire the grill up...Tell stories,fold pads,,,,Like it used to be..Who's up?AND,to borrow a quote from Pate and Wayne..."Don't sweat the petty things,ALWAYS pet the sweatty things..."