Saturday, April 25, 2015

Why do Haters Hate?

There will always be people in your life, both personal and business, that live to hate.

Why?

I am sure that if you ever have the ability to sit and actually talk to them , and they are honest with themselves you will probably find that they were either hurt by someone in the past or are just plain unhappy with their life or situation.

I go back to " Hurt People- Hurt People"
They are hurting so they lash out or they have a hard time watching someone else be happy because quite frankly they are not.

I do not understand , and probably never will, why if you only have so much time in the course of a day or for that matter here on earth that you choose to use it in a negative.

And make no bones about it- it is a CHOICE-
each day you have the power and the choice to make it what you want.
Do you prefer to try to smile and to try to help someone or do you choose to pull people down, to gossip and use your time in a negative?

There will always be haters- you need to work with them, talk to them so what do you do.
Do not play in their sandbox- let them talk to talk, listen politely and move on.
You do not have to participate in the hate or the gossip-
Use your time as a positive!

If you can help them see the other side fine, it can worth a try- otherwise do not allow their problems to become YOUR problems.

CHOOSE

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