Pay Attention...
Listen and learn and be responsive, do not always make it about you. As a matter of fact you should make it very little about you. People want to tell their story so listen and in the end unless they ask you about specifically about you they most likely do not even care- sorry just speaking truth here.
A lot of people talk so much about themselves and what they have done and how great they are that you completely shut them down as they are bragging and most likely mentally already moved on.
Nothing more boring to me then to hear someone bragging about themselves and it tells me all I need to know about their character.
Pay attention to others and what they say both verbally and with their body language, you will learn a lot about them and if you truly care you will find a way to connect.
Connecting and caring is the key to life... we all want and need to connect.
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