Especially in the moment and especially if you disagree.
No need to win every time and no need to beat someone over the head thinking they will “see the light” or understand your side.
Saying nothing can be the best choice but it can also be the difficult choice.
We confuse standing up for our believe or our side with bulling or talking louder.
Take it all in and keep your emotions in check so you can successfully make your case and that may even mean approaching the matter and the person on another time or day.
Balance what you say and when you say it and valence rather to just nod and smile and say nothing...
At least until you can emotionally discuss your thoughts.
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