Speak from the Heart

Speaking out can be difficult and intimidating, my advice is-
Speak from the Heart
Taking to your boss and taking a stand or asking for a raise is hard-
Speak from the Heart
Being in a group meeting is challenging, you do not want to ruffle any feathers, especially in today’s world it is increasingly difficult to have debates or take another side without it becoming ugly and divisive so what do you do? It is easier to keep quiet because you have you raise your hand or your head you may get smacked down and who needs that BS ?
The problem is if we can not share thoughts and compare our positives and negatives we will lose, we will lose a chance to improve and learn , we must be able to exchange ideas without the reprucussions  of being attacked or belittled.
I always try to approach each day knowing that I absolutely mean no harm to anyone and I want to try to always better myself and hopefully do some good. In order to do so I try to speak out when necessary but I always try to speak from my heart and most of all I try to listen.
In can be difficult because if you do not approach things correctly or say something the wrong way you may hurt some feelings. It is human nature for people to automatically get defensive, both with themselves and their circle of people around them so remember that before you type out a response or speak out. You can nothing by just speaking out to make your point but losing any possibility of a true and valid exchange.
Speak from your heart and never try to be malicious and for goodness sake... listen.