: One of our biggest problems is that we don’t like to fail and, more importantly, we don’t like to be seen to fail.
The problem with that train of thought, however, is that we then tend to set ourselves a goal but at the same time we create an excuse to keep as a ‘spare card’ we can use so that if we don’t succeed, we can blame something or somebody else.
However, the more personal responsibility we take, the more in control we are and the more control we have, the more likely we will reach our goal as there will be no excuses to fall back on if we fail.
Therefore, taking responsibility for our actions equals success.
It also makes us feel good about ourselves and rids us of negative personality traits such as anger, fear, resentment, hostility and doubt.
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Learning from EVERY mistake is the answer...Accept responsibility,LEARN and move on...
Take The Blame
When something goes wrong, openly acknowledge it as your fault, even if you feel there were external circumstances that contributed.
If you shift responsibility to someone or something else, you will remain stuck in a rut because “it’s ____’s fault!”
It doesn’t matter whose fault it is. When you shift responsibility, you give up control of the situation.
Don’t be afraid to take risks or make important decisions. Don’t be afraid to mess up, even though it can be “scary” to take responsibility for your actions. It’s even scarier what you may have missed by acting out of fear.
So, when there is a problem, don’t ask yourself who is to blame. Instead, ask yourself: “What could I have done differently?”
This shifts the focus onto your control of the situation instead of feeling like a victim.
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