We want to be a part of the gang, to be part of a team - to be wanted.
Unfortunately sometimes we get so caught up with wanting “in” we leave a bit of ourselves “out”.
I never wanted to be part of the good old boy network because I saw first hand how they exclude others and in turn make decisions that may just benefit the “group “ and that is against my best intentions and my need to include and help others.
The funny thing is you want to part of the “cool kids” but upon further review you realize that they are really not all that cool, they have their own internal struggles and maybe they started losing a bit of themselves by trying so hard to stay part of the cool kids group.
Be yourself
It is not always the easy road but stand by your conscience and understand that you do “need” to be a part of any group to have value.
Your value comes from being YOU !
Do not sell out, buy in or follow for the mere fact to feel needed.
If you need to keep chasing people or trying to jump up and down to be heard you may be barking up the wrong tree and following the wrong crowd- just smile, keep no hate or negative in your heart but start to move on- you are special and do not allow others to bring you down.
You cannot fix or help others till you fix and help yourself.
Believe in yourself!
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