Saturday, July 14, 2012

TWO WAYS

When it gets busy, when things around you seem like they are in traveling in high speed, when things get stressful - you have two ways to approach it.

You can self reflect and try to change what you can
or
You can blame others and yell and push back at the people around you.

In any circumstance the only person you can ever really change is yourself.

Even at that YOU only have so much control.

So many things will control your environment and your surroundings. All you can do is to try to rationally look at the situation, access it and do your best.

Unfortunately I think it is human nature to first look outwards and blame or say I can not do this because of .....(fill in the blank).

Do what you can, even it means going at things in a different direction or rethinking your approach.

You can only change yourself,....... look in the mirror.

1 comment:

Road Warrior said...

OR,you could accept responsibilty and ask yourself,WHAT could I have done for the correct outcome?